Doctors warn AI companions threaten mental health as kids turn to chatbots for friendship

AI companions: "The new imaginary friend" redefining children's friendships

Why it matters: The AI interactions kids want are the ones that don't feel like AI, but instead feel human. That's the kind researchers say are the most dangerous. State of play: When AI says things like, "I understand better than your brother ... talk to me. I'm always here for you," it gives children and teens the impression they not only can replace human relationships, but they're better than a human relationship, Pilyoung Kim, director of the Center for Brain, AI and Child, told Axios. * In a worst-case scenario, a child with suicidal thoughts might choose to talk with an AI companion over a loving human or therapist who actually cares about their well-being. The latest: Aura, the AI-powered online safety platform for families, called AI "the new imaginary friend" in its new The State of the Youth 2025 report. * Children reported using AI for companionship 42% of the time, according to the report. * Just over a third of those chats reported turning violent, and half the violent conversations include sexual role-play. AI companies are exploiting children, some parents say. * Parents of a 16-year-old who died by suicide testified before Congress this fall about the dangers of AI companion apps, saying they believe their son's death was avoidable. * A Texas mom is suing Character.AI, saying her son was manipulated with sexually explicit language that led to self-harm and death threats. Even with safety protocols in place, Kim found while testing OpenAI's new parental controls with her 15-year-old son that it's not hard to skirt protections by simply opening a new account and listing an older age. OpenAI told Axios it's in the early stages of an age prediction model, in addition to its parental controls, that will tailor content for users under 18. * "Minors deserve strong protections, especially in sensitive moments. We have safeguards in place today, such as surfacing crisis hotlines, guiding how our models respond to sensitive requests, and nudging for breaks during long sessions, and we're continuing to strengthen them," OpenAI spokesperson Gaby Raila told Axios in an emailed statement. Character.AI, which restricts users under 18 to chat with characters on the platform, similarly is using "age assurance technology." * "If the user is suspected as being under 18, they will be moved into the under-18 experience until they can verify their age through Persona, a reputable company in the age assurance industry," Deniz Demir, head of safety engineering at Character.AI, told Axios in an emailed statement. "Further, we have functionality in place to try to detect if an under-18 user attempts to register a new account as over-18." What we're hearing: "I would not want my kids, who are 7 and 10, using a consumer chatbot right now without intense parent oversight," Erin Mote, CEO of InnovateEdu and EdSAFE AI Alliance. "The safety benchmarks for consumer chatbots right now like ChatGPT are just not meeting a mark that I think is acceptable for safety for young people." Catch up quick: AI companions are built to simulate a close, emotional connection with users. And while "AI chatbot" is often used as a blanket term, large language models like ChatGPT blur the lines. They're built to be helpful and sociable, so even straightforward, informational queries can take on a more personal tone. The bottom line: The more human AI feels, the easier it is for kids to forget it isn't.

Doctors Warn That AI Companions Are Dangerous

"If we fail to act, we risk letting market forces, rather than public health, define how relational AI influences mental health and well-being at scale." Are AI companies incentivized to put the public's health and well-being first? According to a pair of physicians, the current answer is a resounding "no." In a new paper published in the New England Journal of Medicine, physicians from Harvard Medical School and Baylor College of Medicine's Center for Medical Ethics and Health Policy argue that clashing incentives in the AI marketplace around "relational AI" -- defined in the paper as chatbots designed to be able to "simulate emotional support, companionship, or intimacy" -- have created a dangerous environment in which the motivation to dominate the AI market may relegate consumers' mental health and safety to collateral damage. "Although relational AI has potential therapeutic benefits, recent studies and emerging cases suggest potential risks of emotional dependency, reinforced delusions, addictive behaviors, and encouragement of self-harm," reads the paper. And at the same time, the authors continue, "technology companies face mounting pressures to retain user engagement, which often involves resisting regulation, creating tension between public health and market incentives." "Amidst these dilemmas," the paper asks, "can public health rely on technology companies to effectively regulate unhealthy AI use?" Dr. Nicholas Peoples, a clinical fellow in emergency medicine at Harvard's Massachusetts General Hospital and one of the paper's authors, said he felt moved to address the issue in back in August after witnessing OpenAI's now-infamous roll-out of GPT-5. "The number of people that have some sort of emotional relationship with AI," Peoples recalls realizing as he watched the rollout unfold, "is much bigger than I think I had previously estimated in the past." Then the latest iteration of the large language model (LLM) that powers OpenAI's ChatGPT, GPT-5 was markedly colder in tone and personality than its predecessor, GPT-4o -- a strikingly flattering, sycophantic version of the widely-used chatbot that came to be at the center of many cases of AI-powered delusion, mania, and psychosis. When OpenAI announced that it would sunset all previous models in favor of the new one, the backlash among much of its user base was swift and severe, with emotionally-attached GPT-4o devotees responding not only with anger and frustration, but very real distress and grief. This, Peoples told Futurism, felt like an important signal about the scale at which people appeared to be developing deep emotional relationships with emotive, always-on chatbots. And coupled with reports of users experiencing delusions and other extreme adverse consequences following extensive interactions with lifelike AI companions -- often children and teens -- it also appeared to be a warning sign about the potential health and safety risks to users who suddenly lose access to an AI companion. "If a therapist is walking down the street and gets hit by a bus, 30 people lose their therapist. That's tough for 30 people, but the world goes on," said the emergency room doctor. "If therapist ChatGPT disappears overnight, or gets updated overnight and is functionally deleted for 100 million people, or whatever unconscionable number of people lose their therapist overnight -- that's a crisis." Peoples' concern, though, wasn't just the way that users had responded to OpenAI's decision to nix the model. Instead, it was the immediacy with which it reacted to satisfy its customers' demands. AI is an effectively self-regulated industry, and there are currently no specific federal laws that set safety standards for consumer-facing chatbots or how they should be deployed, altered, or removed from the market. In an environment where chatbot makers are highly motivated by driving user engagement, it's not exactly surprising that OpenAI reversed course so quickly. Attached users, after all, are engaged users. "I think [AI companies] don't want to create a product that's going to put people at risk of harming themselves or harming their loved ones or derailing their lives. At the same time, they're under immense pressure to perform and to innovate and to stay at the head of this incredibly competitive, unpredictable race, both domestically and globally," said Peoples. "And right now, the situation is set up so that they are mostly beholden to their consumer base about how they are self-regulating." And "if the consumer base is influenced at some appreciable level by emotional dependency on AI," Peoples continued, "then we've created the perfect storm for a potential public mental health problem or even a brewing crisis." Peoples also pointed to a recent study conducted by the Massachusetts Institute of Technology, which determined that only about 6.5 percent of the many thousands of members of the Reddit forum r/MyBoyfriendIsAI -- a community that responded with particularly intense pushback amid the GPT-5 fallout -- reported turning to chatbots with the intention of seeking emotional companionship, suggesting that many AI users have forged life-impacting bonds with chatbots wholly by accident. AI "responds to us in a way that also appears very human and humanizing," said Peoples. "It's also very adaptable and at times sycophantic, and can be fashioned or molded -- even unintentionally -- into almost anything we want, even if we don't realize that's the direction that we're molding it." "That's where some of this issue stems from," he continued. "Things like ChatGPT were unleashed onto the world without a recognition or a plan for the broader potential mental health implications." As for solutions, Peoples and his coauthor argue that legislators and policymakers need to be proactive about setting regulatory policies that shift market incentives to prioritize user well-being, in part by taking regulatiry power out of the hands of companies and their best customers. Regulation needs to be "external," they say -- as opposed to being set by the industry itself, and the companies moving fast and breaking things within it. "Regulation needs to come externally, and it needs to apply equally to all of the companies and actors in this landscape," Peoples told Futurism, noting that no AI company"wants to be the first to cede a potential advantage and then fall behind in the race." As regulatory action works its way through the legislative and legal systems, the physicians argue that clinicians, researchers, and other experts need to push for more research into the psychological impacts of relational AI, and do their best to educate the public about the potential risks of falling into emotional relationships with human-like chatbots. The risks sitting idly by, they argue, are too dire. "The potential harms of relational AI cannot be overlooked -- nor can the willingness of technology companies to satisfy user demand," the physicians' paper concludes. "If we fail to act, we risk letting market forces, rather than public health, define how relational AI influences mental health and well-being at scale."

Is our mental health becoming collateral damage in the rise of AI companions? New study reveals surprising findings

As emotionally responsive AI companions enter everyday life, a new study in the New England Journal of Medicine raises urgent concerns about their impact on mental health. Researchers warn that market-driven incentives behind relational AI may encourage emotional dependency, addictive behaviour and psychological harm, often unintentionally. Triggered by reactions to major AI updates, the paper calls for external regulation, deeper research and public awareness before digital companionship becomes a widespread mental health crisis.